Experiencing anxiety, fear, profound sadness, and even nightmares after a traumatic event is completely normal.…
Trauma-Informed Mindfulness and Meditation
In the aftermath of a life-altering event, such as a violent crime, it is natural to revisit past conversations or experiences and to feel anxious about what lies ahead. This constant replaying of events can lead to significant stress as they echo repeatedly in your mind.
Restore calm with mindfulness. Finding mental and physical tranquility is a crucial aspect of building resilience. There are various methods to achieve this calmness, such as surrounding yourself with supportive individuals or engaging in activities that provide a sense of purpose and meaning. Additionally, practicing mindfulness can empower you to quiet your mind, even in challenging circumstances.
Mindfulness has been defined by Jon Kabat-Zinn as “paying attention in a particular way, on purpose, in the present moment and nonjudgmentally.” It involves being aware of your senses and emotions in the moment, without any interpretation or judgment. You are anchored in the present, fully immersed in whatever task you are undertaking. This state is achieved by directing your awareness to your surroundings or your inner feelings, while calmly accepting your thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations. Maintaining calmness and embracing intense emotions takes practice. Accepting a thought or feeling does not imply that you like it; rather, it means you acknowledge its existence. By taking a moment to observe your mind, you can avoid getting caught in a cycle of negative thoughts and become less reactive.
What does it mean to consciously pay attention and be aware without passing judgment?
Here are some examples:
- Awareness of the world: Take a moment to notice the colors and sounds surrounding you, experiencing them purely as sensations.
- Body awareness: Feel the pull of gravity on your body or the sensations in your toes, recognizing any tingling, warmth, or pressure without labeling them as good or bad. They simply are.
- Awareness of your own mind: Gently observe your thoughts and reactions with kindness and compassion.
- Awareness of emotion: Acknowledge feelings of sadness, anger, or panic without judgment. Allow yourself to ride the waves of these emotions while being gentle with yourself.
- Awareness of others: Listen carefully to what someone is communicating, free from judgments or preconceived notions.
Cultivating Mindfulness Takes Practice
The great news is that you don’t need to carve out extra time in your day to start practicing mindfulness.
You can enhance your ability to be present by engaging in just one simple activity with intention and without judgment. Here are several personal strategies to help you weave mindfulness into your daily routine:
- Immerse yourself in music, allowing your thoughts to fade away.
- Brew a cup of tea or coffee and savor each sip slowly.
- Exercise with purpose and concentration.
- Walk to your car, taking in the beauty of your surroundings.
- Practice mindful eating, truly savoring the flavors of your meal.
- Spend a few minutes outdoors, simply existing in nature.
- Engage in meaningful conversation, listening and reflecting.
- Enjoy a shower by fully engaging your senses – from the fragrance of the soap to the sounds and sensations of the water.
- Participate in a meditation or yoga class.
Meditation involves intentionally dedicating time to cultivate the skill of observing your thoughts and guiding your attention, fostering greater mindfulness. A common practice is to sit quietly for a predetermined duration while paying attention to your breath as it flows in and out, or by repeating a word or prayer. Whenever thoughts emerge, gently redirect your focus back to your breath or chosen phrase. With consistent practice, many advantages of meditation will naturally unfold.
- Enhanced relaxation and improved sleep quality
- Improved health and greater attunement to your body’s signals
- Heightened awareness of your surroundings and sensitivity to the environment
- Boosted concentration and the ability to accomplish tasks both at work and home
- Decreased internal stress – comparisons and judgments diminish
- Greater compassion for others, along with increased kindness towards yourself
- Heightened sensitivity to the feelings of others, particularly children and loved ones
Tips for trauma-sensitive meditation
Meditation can help cope with trauma reactions. Meditation by itself isn’t a treatment for trauma reactions or posttraumatic stress disorder but, when used along with a treatment program or as a practice to manage stress once you’ve gone through treatment, it can be very helpful.
- If you have a background of dissociation or significant trauma, consider engaging in meditation only under the guidance of a trauma-informed teacher or counselor.
- When concentrating on physical sensations, becoming aware of an increased heart rate, pain, or other feelings may trigger memories of a traumatic experience.
- Traumatic experiences can alter your capacity to self-soothe and manage your emotions. It’s essential to feel safe and supported during meditation practice.
- You always have the option to pause whenever you need to, especially until you feel more equipped to handle challenging emotions or intrusive thoughts. There’s no reason to feel guilty about stopping at any moment.
- Discover techniques to ground yourself when emotions become overwhelming.