Sharing your story

October 20, 2024
CenterForHealing
Articles

Sharing your personal experiences or “story” with others can be incredibly empowering. However, it’s essential to approach this in a safe, purposeful, and effective manner. This tip sheet is designed to assist you in making informed and intentional decisions regarding how and when to share your personal narratives.

What are some ways you can share your story?

There are several ways to convey your story as a victim, survivor, or family member affected by a mass violence incident (MVI). Sharing your experiences can enhance others’ understanding of the profound effects of MVIs and contribute to the healing and recovery of fellow survivors. Here are a few examples:

Deliver speeches at public events
Offer peer support
Mentor at support group meetings
Organize or take part in community initiatives
Present at small group gatherings
Join task forces aimed at policy reform
Serve as a spokesperson in the media
Engage in discussions on online forums or social media platforms

What are reasons to share your story?

Victims, survivors, and family members have diverse reasons for sharing their stories. Before you share, it’s essential to clarify your motivations and consider how they align with your recovery goals. Sharing is a deeply personal journey that can be beneficial in various ways, such as:

Individualizes the experience of loss and trauma
Acknowledges the profound effects of motor vehicle incidents (MVIs) on survivors, their families, and communities
Assists in finding clarity and meaning from personal experiences
Challenges stereotypes and misconceptions, while diminishing stigma
Encourages creative thinking and uncovers new avenues for recovery
Fosters connections and cultivates a supportive community
Can inspire personal growth and transformation in oneself and others
Enhances awareness of one’s cultural background and identity

Other ways to get involved

While sharing your experience is one way to engage after going through a motor vehicle incident (MVI), several other options are available. These alternatives can be beneficial if you feel unprepared to share your story, if the timing isn’t right, or for any other reason. Other ways to get involved include:

Advocating for change
Participating in or helping to organize community events
Volunteering with non-profit organizations
Joining a task force focused on policy change
Organizing a team for local events (such as walks, runs, arts activities, or any events that raise public awareness about MVIs)
Engaging in fundraising efforts.